Author: js. Posted: May 2021
Respect defined. Noun. To have deep admiration for someone or something. A state of feeling to be courteous, to be considerate. To be a tradition.
Verb. To have self-discipline, to applaud someone or something. To deeply admire someone or something by your own choice. To build trust or a safe place/space.
Respect is a learned behavior.
Respect is the teacher who sits on the desk as they teach, and the student that can not wait to do the same.forth grade teacher of js, kindest teacher
We all have different ways to define respect. One thing is clear; expressing respect is less visible than disrespect. Disrespect is seen with body language and heard with harsh words.
Keep it Simple. Creating a list of disrespect may be easier to build. When we do the opposite our relationships may blossoms
- Lack of sympathy
- Harmful word
- Constant frustration
- Lack of call back, emails, or personal response
- Denial of an action and no remorse of any
- Negative form of body language
- Vocal threat of harm or violence
- Negative jokes or Comments
Without respect relationships won’t last
There are four stages within the lose of respect
The time in which you first meet someone excitement is the fuel building and driving you. Quality time and questions build the relationship to a deeper level. Both parties have a vision what the relationship should be, therefore, the actions are incorporated to bring the vision life between the two set people.
Relationship is still together, however you are having to now try in create ways to be together. The time when connecting no longer seems to be a normal habit. Energy is required to be together, rather than creating energy.
Disconnect is often seen, in passions and goals. The relationship is managing to stay above water. Sometimes one has to let go so that the other may live.
Rather than letting go, there is an overwhelming amount of blaming that deflected. When our words and actions are at a hi level of disrespect. This will continue until one of the parties walks away, or help is sought out to save the relationship. Many times when it has reached this point disillusion is best due to the emotional and physical aspects in relationship. (in my none medical or doctor thoughts)
The above four parts of disrespect, Cited: “Ten Powerful Phrases for Positive People.” pg 144. Copy Right 2008. Hachette Book Group Inc. New York NY.
It is time to aspire for truth, that it may inspire justice.
Truth, because of our lack of respect that is growing beyond numbers in the past few years. When blaming everyone and everything for the world in which we live, it is fact; quite the contrary, life is a result of our personal actions. It is in fact case in point that our dilemma and struggles where created by our choice of respect or disrespect. Allow me to explain.
When an event in our life happens, we generate thought about the event. Leading to us generating an emotion and a thought again. We may generate an action, whether the action is positive or negative is up to us. We can choose to feel sorry for yourselves leaving our lives to remain in its currant state. OR we can begin to take actions that will bring about change in our lives. The choice to remain emotional or become active is up to each of us.
“As man thinks in his heart, so he is.”Proverbs. 23:7
Choice is yours: RESPECT and make a positive atmosphere for the world in which we live. Or the latter. When we blame others it is a form of DISRESPECT that often takes over our lives.
Remember: It is our duty to seek out the truth of any area, results may bring justice to the truth. Seek the truth in your life that justice may ring in your actions. Respect if no one else, yourself that you may free yourself of discord.
Fact: Disrespect only leads to deep pain and suffering. Self-care is self-love. How can we respect others when we do not even respect ourselves.
- Respect starts with you. Respect is taught in the home. Practicing respect is an important part of growth.
Return for part two, equality is respect.