“Laugh out loud to lighten the load that you carry. Cares take a toll on our health. When we find something to laugh about we can blow them away with laugher. I am a huge fan of spreading joy and laughter. When you smile at someone, they usually return the smile…”
Emotions and how to deal with them is not always taught
cope. it is taught one way or another.
most addicts are not found until they want to be
hovering over them is often a forced hand that will enable
addiction is found in all areas, the results will vary
control is loved by all humans
empowerment is a personal view
a saving grace to an addict is not understood by all
rock bottom, lacks direction because it is never in the same place
At the start of any addiction one is in control. while spinning it looks pretty and many look on in amazement. then it begins to wobble and spin out of control. when one impacted by the force of hitting rock bottom; many shake in wonder how did I get here? just like a child’s toy top, you chose to start this game spinning. nothing spins forever not even mother earth.
Are you over the day to to drama? Do you always worry what your boss will point out next? Do you feel like the kid being bullied in school? Do you feel as if there is no way out?
This is the blog for you. How could quitting be Your next best thing?
First why don’t we look at your employment.
ARE YOU DOING WHAT YOU DREAMED OF?
ARE YOU LIVING WHERE YOU WANT TO LIVE FOR AT LEAST THE NEXT 5 YEARS?
ARE YOU IN A STUDY RELATIONSHIP, MARRIAGE, PARTNERSHIP?
ARE YOU HEALTHY, SOBER, IN A GOOD MIND SET?
Remember, once we enter adulthood and cross over from the job to the career it is vital that we leave a trial that is not harmful in our advancements. With that said, let us look at the results of quitting.
Do you have A JOB OR A CAREER? COULD YOU AFFORD TO quit?
What if you did quit your job?
Would it help you?
WHAT IF YOU QUIT GIVING YOUR BOSS POWER AND STOP CARING WHAT THEY THOUGHT?
what would happen :
If you quit giving away your positive time and energy
If you quit caring about what other people thought
If you stopped lying when responding to coworker’s questions
EXAMPLE:How are you today Dan? I am great. RESULT: Simple things as saying you are great when you are not is allowing them to have the power of speech over you. It is okay to not be fine, and you need to be able to express that in your place of employment. When We feel we are no longer able to share our thoughts and feelings we begin to shut down, until we are able to run with the first chance we have.
EXAMPLE: I have always enjoyed working with you, you have so many bright ideas. RESULT: You have lied for the last three years telling joe joe this and now you are a hating your job. No you hate yourself because you have been lying to the same person and you hate that you now feel you are unable to be honest and quitting seem easier.
NOw LET”S GET TO THE POINT
DO you need to quit your job or do you need to stop giving away your energy to the people place and things that do not need them.
It is one thing to care and have compassion, however, when it consumes you to the fact that you have to falsely prove yourself you are no longer caring for yourself.
QUESTION IS: Are you lying to your coworkers just to fit in? If you could stop would your work life be a peaceful place?
Definition of Contentment:
1.)To be in a state of being; happiness and satisfaction. To be fulfilled. Also an emotional state of being that seems as though you are mentally,body and mind at complete ease with the current situation, accepted of what is
2.) Contentment: The act of having no desire for material things in an abundance, You are satisfied and happy with the present life you are leading. Knowledge that joy does not come from material things
“Contentment received early in life allows greater wealth to be obtained.”
Would you rather, take all or receive little
Would you rather watch tv, dreading your job or read a book. “The 2020 Workplace” improving your knowledge
Would you rather share a car with your husband or read a book .”Leaders don’t have to be Managers” learning to lead where you are
Contentment can not be defined as being wrong nor right. It is a personal state of being happy and satisfied; therefore, defined differently by each of us. The act of being content in one area and not the other; is a balance we find throughout our lives. Example, you may be content with your home, but in your career is a daily struggle. Education is a key for growth and positive attributes, to help us improve and inherit our life’s purpose. Seasons of Life inevitably will come, how we react to them is our truth. js
Danger: Lack of Contentment Ahead, Destruction
lack of all self worth
no pride within your work
vindictive mind set
feelings of worthlessness
refusing education of any means, within higher standing
depression/ asleep mind and body
Would you rather, have a life of depression full of sorrow or would you rather be living a life created by you obtaining your own goals?
Warning: Results of Contentment Ahead; Blessings
discipline (found in many areas)
no long worried or comparing yourself
helping others, paying it forward
“Restore Contentment, adjust, adapt and keep going staying the course”
Mike Tucker, “Restoring your Marriage contentment”. All Post, Happy Marriage, 2012
work cited: 1. Success One Day at a Time 2. Qualities of a Team Player John C. Maxwell 3. Am I making myself clear, Terry Felber