Problem Solving for the internal & external trials of the day.

LAUGHTER. EXPRESSION OF SUCCESS . js .

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“Laugh out loud to lighten the load that you carry. Cares take a toll on our health. When we find something to laugh about we can blow them away with laugher. I am a huge fan of spreading joy and laughter. When you smile at someone, they usually return the smile…”

Said some one else
i am sure with Laughter

Have you had a bad, great, overwhelming, eventful, planned, focused, fun, or a blessed day? No matter the day we have we must take time and laugh. For laughter is our bodies natural healer.

TRY IT

Did you know

Laughter stimulates the mind

Laughter burns calories

Laughter creates memories

Laughter release stress

Laughter is a healthy non toxic way to change your mood for the better

Take away

Laughing at someone else may not be great for the other person. Always be kind and keep on laughing.

Share Kindness be Humble enjoy a good laugh
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DIY Superhero Accessory Kit.

knowledge is the greatest accessory of any superhero

EXPRESSIONS OF SUCCESS.Author.js.October 2021

you are a superhero when you choose to use your super powers.

you are only smart when you put to use the knowledge in which you have obtained

other wise you are just a person walking around in a cape

inspired by life, quoted by .js.author.of.justiceintheink.

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Are you ready for everyday life or are you scrambling to get a costume together? With a few simple accessories to your daily activities you can have the same attributes as a superhero of your choice.

Don’t worry these few steps can be done as fast as a change in the phone booth.

fresh start of the day

Confidence in life

  • Confidence has power to increase your productivity
  • Daily affirmations has the power to increase self love
  • Lack of fear has the power to increase bravery
  • Stop, the action of comparing oneself to other has the power to increase the knowledge one’s own value

No joke, with confidence you won’t hide in a cave all day, rather you will have the super hero power to face life head on.

Alone or with your side kick

Accomplish goals

  • Setting goals increases the power of the future
  • Monitoring those goals increases the power of self checking
  • Revising daily actions increases the power of success
  • Success increases the power to meet the goals set in place, and that is amazing

You may not have came to this planet in a rocket and glowing rocks don’t harm you, however you are in need of finding out your true self and the power within.

Setting goals ALLOWS you to see your power

long-term Positive actions

  • Strength, in confidence to meet new people
  • Speed, to meet goals
  • Intelligence, leading to a promotion, or self business
  • Exceptional, acts of kindness

Positive actions can lead to a decrease in bullying. No matter if you have 2 or 8 arms, all you have to do is say please and thank you, in order to get what you need in life.

Manners go a long way, no matter what PLANET you are from

The Fight against inhumanity

  • Equality is away of life that always increases power
  • Standing up against bullying in the office place, personal relations, or community in which you live will take the power away from the bully
  • Recording the drama may help, but power is increased when action is taken to save another’s life
  • Hold yourself responsible before you point and judge others this will increase the power within yourself

I think you are hero, but if you do not think so. ASK YOURSELF:

what do I need to change that I to can be a superhero?

what are you great at? Give it to the world that they may see your greatness

Knowledge is an accessory; like a superhero’s sidekick. Without it no story would be complete. .js.

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Addiction, the real truth

addiction why it remains,

Human nature:

that which generates power, is often repeated.

before one will give up power there is a war

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straight to the point 10 facts

  • Emotions and how to deal with them is not always taught
  • cope. it is taught one way or another.
  • most addicts are not found until they want to be
  • hovering over them is often a forced hand that will enable
  • addiction is found in all areas, the results will vary
  • intoxicated assumptions
  • control is loved by all humans
  • empowerment is a personal view
  • a saving grace to an addict is not understood by all
  • rock bottom, lacks direction because it is never in the same place

At the start of any addiction one is in control. while spinning it looks pretty and many look on in amazement. then it begins to wobble and spin out of control. when one impacted by the force of hitting rock bottom; many shake in wonder how did I get here? just like a child’s toy top, you chose to start this game spinning. nothing spins forever not even mother earth.

by: js

control. the spin of a top

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an addiction is a mind power play. no matter who you are, you will play one game or another. some keep up the jones others choose dope, all is a form of addiction. they are both for the rich and poor. the only difference is the stigma that the world has placed on them.

will you follow the world, or help your own addiction?

Expression of Success. REAl-al-i-ty of just being yourself

Be yourself you never know who you will come in contact with. And what would you know. Just the person you are is what that other human needs. Shine because someone out there needs the light in the darkness.

kindness

You are Enough

  • Good enough
  • smart enough
  • tall enough
  • skinny enough
  • loud enough
  • brave enough
  • loved enough
  • silly enough
  • kind enough
  • humble enough
  • sweet enough
  • sexy enough
  • soft enough

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“I Am Enough, Death could not hold me, so I ran into my future” said me just one year ago

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  • Whatever you are wondering
  • you are____enough
  • why because you are in control.
  • Be enough for yourself first, then spill over and be enough for the world around you
  • keep learning
  • keep growing in wisdom
  • that one day you can tell someone else they are enough
  • shine the light of love and reality on your soul
  • because God made you and he is enough for us all
  • stay blessed
  • stay humble
  • stay kind
  • aspire truth to inspire justice
  • js

Equality, 4 parts the human within

Understanding yourself first, empowers within, EXPRESSIONS of SUCCESS.js.

“if you are determined to learn, no one can stop you” zig ziglar

We are all set with same human makeup a mind, body, soul, and personal perspective. What is personal perspective? The unique buildup of each person’s thoughts and feeling. The world in which we live builds the very perspective we chose to give value. Through daily growth and the changing environment around us in turn makes a personal perspective a subject that remains in constant movement.

Let’s break down the 4 parts:Mind, Body, Soul and Personal Perspective

1.) THE BODY

  • Bones, the same in all humans
  • Skin, a protective layer that shields the inside of humans vital organs
  • Cells, generated to clean out the body supply it with the needed materials
  • Content of body mass, based on human engagement, genetics, life quality
  • Physical Appearance placement of body parts, generally the same for all
  • Height, subject in which we grow, in an upward motion

js, my personal perspective: The body is just that a body. The world holds different views. I think they are all wonderful.

Reflect: Has anything changed within your body, over the last year? Did it help when someone pointed it out? Was it a friend, that you loved someone told you, or the latter. Reviewing your body, has it affected your life in a negative or positive way?

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2.) THE MIND

  • Stores memories
  • Controls the bodies movements
  • Contains mood affecting chemicals
  • Manages the thought process
  • Has the ability to learn and grow
  • Response can be positive or negative

js, my personal perspective: The mind is part of each of us that needs to be attended to. Sometimes it needs a little dusting, or one on one time with someone greater than us to set it on the right path. As many things in life a little fine tuning is good to keep it running tip top.

Reflect: How is your mind. Your thoughts, knowledge, communication driving you and the relationship with those around you. Are you heading into a positive atmosphere, did you know you could be in a negative place or time but remain personally positive, inner peace?

Positive vibes within oneself starts in your mind.

as the vibes are positive the body is re activating the minds response.

Honest thinking patterns enables the creation of positive response today as well as the days ahead”

.js.

KEEP READING the soul and personal perspective are up next! Then the truth checking your relationship’s reality.

Positive minds launch positive relationships into the winning zone of inner peace.

3.) The Soul, defined by others

  • “The immaterial aspect or essence of human being” Britannica.com
  • “What is the making of your character” CallingDictionary.com
  • “The making of your lungs and heart within the body” Brigov.com
  • “Way in which we connect with one another and become one” Wondermist.com
  • “Able to feel your soul through nature and mediation” Huffpost.com
  • “The belief that we are able to overlap souls” Mind&BodyGreen.com

js, my personal perspective: I believe our soul is the way in which we connect with our higher power to have the ability to know right from wrong on a deeper level than what our caregivers taught us. When we are doing what is right our body is at peace because our soul is at peace.

Reflect: Have you ever thought about your soul? What ways have you came to terms with it? Have your thoughts changed through years? Does how you think about your soul determine your friendships?

soul

knowing it will allow you to know your best life.

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4.) Person Perspective

  • Collection of your own personal thoughts and ideas
  • Interpretation of the world in which one is living
  • Analysis of material taught or shared
  • What ones character is built on
  • Constructed and reconstructed over a lifespan
  • The ability to be who you are. By reconfiguring everyone else’s fact and fiction into the personal fact and fictions of oneself.

js, my personal perspective: Each of us carry our thoughts and ideas based on our personal world. We build and create emotions, reactions and response based on our past knowledge or experience. Knowledge of our personal beliefs and why will allow us to understand the actions in which we take.

Question: Is the personal perspective of self right or wrong based on the laws and morals of the time period in which we live.

Reflect: Do you know your true personal perspective. Not what you truly can say is my own belief and knowledge because I have educated myself and now take it as my own. Believing what our parents, teachers or friends say. Do research on what is given to you. Then decide whether you will take it on as your own belief or not

Taking the worlds knowledge and obtaining your own

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Getting to know person next you, 7 questions

  1. Tell the truth the start to finish, if you have to lie then it is not worth it
  2. Listen to hear and understand what the person is sharing
  3. Listen to listen not respond, respond only when they are done, or if you ask to interject let your body language say it before you do
  4. Pay attention to your body language, are you engaged or pulling away,
  5. Look to see if they are engaged or pulling away
  6. Know when it is time to stop talking and either let the conversation go or set an appointment for a later time
  7. Take notes if needed, and when meeting someone knew always write their name down, that you may call them by name the next time you speak

Understand the person may start with understanding the eare in which they were raise

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  1. A Brief breakdown of eare. 1960-2020
  • 60’s/Women working/men at war
  • 70’s/ Return from the war
  • 80’s/ Lack of help leads to self medicating, the crack cocain surge
  • 90’s /Peace a chance for growth, war on drugs across America
  • 2010 /Oil in the gulf, deadly storms across the globe
  • 2020/ Our whole world was shut down with the corona virus

5 questions to ask ourselves

  1. Am I being realistic in my beliefs of myself and those around me
  2. Am I being kind to myself and those around me
  3. Am I sharing equality in myself and those around me
  4. Am I being just and humble to myself and those around me
  5. If you answered no to any of the above, then biggest question is could you if you tried and why not try?
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Be Bold Aspire for the truth that it may inspire justice in the world in which you live

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Quit, How it could be greatest thing to launch you into your career.

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Are you over the day to to drama? Do you always worry what your boss will point out next? Do you feel like the kid being bullied in school? Do you feel as if there is no way out?
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This is the blog for you. How could quitting be Your next best thing?

First why don’t we look at your employment.

  • ARE YOU DOING WHAT YOU DREAMED OF?
  • ARE YOU LIVING WHERE YOU WANT TO LIVE FOR AT LEAST THE NEXT 5 YEARS?
  • ARE YOU IN A STUDY RELATIONSHIP, MARRIAGE, PARTNERSHIP?
  • ARE YOU HEALTHY, SOBER, IN A GOOD MIND SET?

Remember, once we enter adulthood and cross over from the job to the career it is vital that we leave a trial that is not harmful in our advancements. With that said, let us look at the results of quitting.

Do you have A JOB OR A CAREER? COULD YOU AFFORD TO quit?

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What if you did quit your job?

Would it help you?

_TIME OUT_

WHAT IF YOU QUIT GIVING YOUR BOSS POWER AND STOP CARING WHAT THEY THOUGHT?

what would happen :

  • If you quit giving away your positive time and energy
  • If you quit caring about what other people thought
  • If you stopped lying when responding to coworker’s questions

EXAMPLE:How are you today Dan? I am great. RESULT: Simple things as saying you are great when you are not is allowing them to have the power of speech over you. It is okay to not be fine, and you need to be able to express that in your place of employment. When We feel we are no longer able to share our thoughts and feelings we begin to shut down, until we are able to run with the first chance we have.

EXAMPLE: I have always enjoyed working with you, you have so many bright ideas. RESULT: You have lied for the last three years telling joe joe this and now you are a hating your job. No you hate yourself because you have been lying to the same person and you hate that you now feel you are unable to be honest and quitting seem easier.

NOw LET”S GET TO THE POINT

DO you need to quit your job or do you need to stop giving away your energy to the people place and things that do not need them.

It is one thing to care and have compassion, however, when it consumes you to the fact that you have to falsely prove yourself you are no longer caring for yourself.

QUESTION IS: Are you lying to your coworkers just to fit in? If you could stop would your work life be a peaceful place?

The question is, Does the job quit or do the actions towards the job quit lying and showing false compassion?

BE HONEST, or the next job will be hell too

EMOTIONAL FREEDOM CAN BE YOURS IF YOU ALLOW IT!

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Aspire for the truth within yourself; that you may inspire justice in your world.

justice between the lines
Follow Me, Leave a Comment, Message Me. FIND ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA 

Don’t Text Back @ExpressionsOfSuccess.

Why NOT To: Text Your EX Back, the reason in the reasoning

Justice can be found in so many lines, but honestly; what justice can be found when you dip back into the ex files?

#justiceintheink

#inkstainedhands

an ex is like a STAIN+ A MARk Made. A Stain is harder to REMOVE The more you touch it. (equal but not equivalent) A TEXT MESSAGE sent can not be deleted, really.

A list: you may & it could, if you were to text back

  • You may misjudge their reality
  • You may compromise your Self-Worth
  • You may not get an apology
  • You may hear laughter
  • You may open a negative environment

  • IT Could set you back in your goals
  • IT Could set you back in current relationships
  • IT Could bring about depression/anxiety
  • IT Could open feelings that were once dismissed
  • IT Could set you back in your occupation

Your Past is your past for a reason. #beabeast

  • INSTEAD YOU SHOULD
  • Shake the past off
  • Smile often
  • Laugh, even when the world says no
  • Meet new friends
  • Create dinner your way
  • Buy yourself a little something
  • Give yourself flowers
  • Day trip alone or with friends
  • Fall in love with yourself
  • Live your best life

Man or Woman this blog is written to help us all. The past is not our present nor is it our future.

Rather your past is a tool to grow from. Growing stronger to not repeat the same hardships.

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Your path is your own; however, be mindful actions done today will affect your tomorrow. Whither it be positive or negative is up to you.

Be Kind in all your adventure, to yourself, others and mother nature.

Look back: previous blogs can help guide you. being presently active will enable your future to be an expression of success
  • 4 Ways to promote a healthy reaction to the reality we can not control
  • Signification in setting goals
  • Justice through contentment
  • How to confidently start your day, everyday

Stay focused on the here and now

The 3 leading ways to guide the company’s team. How do you manage as a manager,

Author: js. Written July 202I

the company allows the style of management to be put into place. Which style often leads to different measurements of success. all areas of the business need to be observed to measure the success, however; self reflection will enable you and your team to remain within the levels of positive results.

3 Leading Styles are:

LEADer, boss, coach
The three together and the affect over all productivity is a postive force of action  

As a leader there are expectation that are put into place to lead the company to meet their goals. here are some questions to assist the type of management

  • How much information does your staff have about the company?
  • Would sharing your goals and vision improve their actions leading to the goals being met?
  • How soon do you tell your staff about the work they are needing to accomplish vs how long have you known about it. Preparation is key on any level.
  • Have you or the company done proper training for each job placement?
  • Does your staff respect you because you are friends or because you are a strong leader and run the company and team well?
  • How open are you when a new team member joins the staff?
  • Do you talk about staff with staff?
  • If there is a chain of command is it known and is it kept by employees?
  • How does the staff contact you?
  • Do you review each employee and if you are friends how do you justify the review?
  • How many staff do you check on daily?
  • How many need to watched and lead?

Correcting your staff like a child, only proves your incompetence to be a manager; as you are the one that hired them

Leading a correction team will only insure a lack of motivation and question to arise.

Knowing your stress points as a manager will allow you to have the proper reaction with your staff and customers.

What is a boss? It is the person in charge of a group or team of people that must ask permission before doing any action other than what was originally stated.

5 affects of being a boss
Emotional: the unknown of the day leads to stress and feelings generated towards other people that the matters are not with.
Physical: A lack of food and sleep result in decreased energy. MAking the day unbalanced
Mental: when you spend the day callulating everyone else process you spend little time meeting your own goals
Spiritual: Lack of faith in people may be a branch from a bigger tree.
Finance: By bossing and micro managing are you making a profit? If not then what is needed?

Suggest a list for the team to create and build on their strengths. By having them admit their wrongs you will create a positive conversation of development of company knowledge.

“I” statements are used when expressing stress points and what you personally and realistically can do to create a peaceful environment.

Do not waste time trying to control others

What is a leader? The person that sees items and products and insures improvement all while rallying the staff to move toward the company goals. A leader motivates while also being empathic. (learning the office terms defined)

5 affects of being a leader
Closing generational gap: when you learn how to motivate and also excel those with experience in the same field and team is a collaboration of personalities all working toward the same goals.
Satisfaction with in the environment: The staff feel safe, okay within the company walls, as well as the customers.
Respect is established and reciprocated: the loyalty of customer and staff is the result of a successful team. It is not without trials but it can be obtained.
Measured performance increase: solve problems faster than those that need to seek to verbal or written permission.
Communication is able to be shared and received: a direct communication line is the guild for completement of goals within the set time frame.

Suggest to your team; Sharing an Employees view of what training is needed to insure the maxim success is met.

“True leaders do not create followers they create more leaders”

What are you creating
What is a coach? The one that is able to see each team members strength and weakness. A coach is a motivating leader that pushes you to be the best you can be all while maintaining the numbers and growth of the company.

Facts applied: The thrid base coach knows all the players. Signals the plays needed for the game as it is happening. All while one is making revision for the team as a whole on a moment to moment notice. Being a coach requires quick feet.

5 affects of being a coach
knowledge: The information for goals and their plans are distributed, taught, practiced, reviewed and brought to the table for action. A coach insures that everyone knows the information and are placed within the teams to have the greatest success.
Trust: A connection is made on a personal level with each member of the staff. A coach will understand and know the points of strength and weakness. Therefore; the crew trust the judgement and placement of assignment.
Integrity: When you are established as being a trustworthy person word of mouth tends to increase sales. Coaches raise the profit as well as staff productivity.
Raise the standards: improved product and improved customer relations
Positive work environment: Having the knowledge, trusting the person it came from and meeting the goals of higher standards; A positive response.

Suggestions for management , See if a manager can name three personal facts of a staff member. Coaching is to know your team on a personal level as it is used to strengthen your company.

When a manager has been selected it is a call to do a great work; aspire within that you may inspire others.

  1. empower your staff
  2. tell the truth in all things
  3. environments allow success to prosper

4 ways to promote a healthy reaction to the reality we can not control

EXPRESSIONS OF SUCCESS. AUTHOR: js. 2021. July.

A bad day tends to lead to over thinking. Wondering if it was the conditions, circumstance, staff or simply yourself that created the day? Self reflection enables you to process the day. When we measure daily success it enables us recalculate or celebrate the appropriate action.

success found in Daily Reflection

Stress is a reality of adulthood. How one reacts to the stress will determine the satisfaction of that reality.

“Different views show different pictures”

Quote Unknown

1.) Know your stress points

Stress points are high level of emotions that disable your activities. Knowledge of these points and the source will help bring a understanding to the levels of stress. When the pin point is regonieved, of the first stress point, action now has a starting location. the snowball effect if you will can then be reduced.

Questions to ask yourself
  • Is the stress created by me, unrealistic expectation, lack of knowledge or preperation
  • Unresolved forgiveness within a relationship, personal or work related
  • The lack of physical or emotional needs being met
  • Hunger or thirst
  • Are you Worried, unable to focus on anything other
  • Anxiety or Depression
  • Life changes such as the death of human or animal, a break up in relationships or upset in the family circle
  • The Bad News Calls: results from a test, or call from land owner, friend.

With each question how would one react is the universe they will create. Positive actions or positive understanding of each process within the events will lend the strength to no longer allow stress point to affect other people or places it does not pertain to.

2.) Feed your body the proper nutrition

Nutrition is how food affects the body. By eating the right foods for the body at the rights times will maintain a healthy body. This is different for each human, however we are similar so you may look to other blogs for healthy food intake. When one takes care of the body it is less likely to cause an upset in the day to day activities.

Questions to ask yourself
  • Do I start my day off with breakfast
  • What type of day does my food consist of
  • What is my water intake
  • Am I able to use the restroom regularly
  • Do I need to visit with a doctor
  • Will packing my own food help me through my day
  • Does alcohol affect my proper food
  • How often do I move throughout day, work out, walk, or take the stairs

By changing a few of these at a time an increase of energy may help decrease the stress. Anger may be caused by lack of food. When one listens to the body through hunger or pain then taking the proper action allows the body to be relaxed; leading to the mind being at ease.

3.) Increase the level of knowledge

Knowledge is a great tool but when it not given or taken it may lead to a job or activity becoming harder to accomplish. Understanding how the knowledge was missed leads to finding a solution in obtaining it.

Questions to ask yourself
  • Is the lack of knowledge established by yourself
  • Was it the company or a personal oversight
  • What steps are needed to gain the knowledge
  • Is the knowledge one that you need to teach or instill
  • Do you need help and if so who and how do you ask the proper the channels
  • Self reflection may be needed for time to allow proper judgement into which action is needed
  • Seek advice, do research

The way you obtain knowledge is to seek it out. Funny how we have to learn how to learn. Often times this process makes a stronger when it is done ourselves because the reward is all ours. One may have to encounter new stress to relieve the stress on multiple levels.

4.)Creative thinking for daily encounters

  • Creative thinking of the employees or the coffee maker at the corner location
  • Are you a target for some unsaid reason
  • Do you need to soften your people skills
  • Is culture a topic
  • Home life of yourself and others
  • Age difference

Knowledge on a personal level with people as well as our personal communication skills can enhance the positive level in which information is received and given.

Creative thinking, Observation of daily living, Finding the Middle Ground, and Refreshing the Start to your day.

Finding the truth as to why the stress is there, will light the path to change it. Taking that path is up to you.

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To give love we must first love ourselves.
 One area of stress often becomes two.

Be kind. Be humble. Be just. Be the person that changes your world one street at a time.

js

Justice within the lines can be found on social media lines. A community awaits those seeking justice and success. Find your support team and change the world one action at a time.

Highest form of respect is that of my own marriage, Expression of Success

Respect when no one is looking is respect in the RAW

0 loss of quality & 0 alterations

What is the true respect? A marriage true quality is maintaining respect when no one is holding the marriage accountable. This blog well share key points I have learned to insure a healthy & respectful marriage.

Key Points: Mutual Respected Marriage

  • Communication
  • Honesty
  • Loyalty
  • Teamwork
  • Flexibility
  • Actively listening
  • Organization
  • Balance of physical desires

Importance in how we communicate:

  • Calm Assertive tones
  • Submissive to desires
  • Humble yourself that opinions may be shared
  • Listen to hear, not to respond
  • Trust, their words as the truth.
  • Adhere to the needs/desires within a conscience time frame

The Following was created and written by js the author of this blog, no sharing rights are given. CopyRight 2020

When A Respectful Gardener’s Communicates

“When a Respectful Gardener’s Communicates”

  • Blossom Conversation– having a conversation that enables the other person to give you feed back and advice as they see the situation
  • Watering Conversation– one person has the ability to share how they feel about a topic without a rebuttal
  • Planting Conversation-both of you equally have the ability to share ideas, both in negative and positive views within the subject”
if your sentence starts with: Should of, Could of, Would of, then you have unrealistic expectations that you have placed on someone or something, resulting in disappointment that we have set into motion BY own assumptions.

Keeping conversations within the marriage is a demonstration of respect. Coming to a joint understanding on how knowledge is acquired will allow a firm foundation in which it is received.

REspect is an action whether it is positive or negative is up to each one of us.

Asking advice for a marriage is tricky:

  • Best friend- May side with you and or hold resentments
  • Coworkers –Unsafe feed back due to lack of shared knowledge
  • Family members – Bringing them into the marriage may have negative lasting effects.

Professional help is always best. Seek one voice for advise rather than many.

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Negative Results ( When Disrespect comes into the relationship) : Communication breaks down. When we begin to let other people influence our relationship. Our opinion or assumption may lead towards discord. This is a good stopping point. Return to your spouse and talk with them about the emotions you experienced. Remember all venting is not good venting. Teamwork; may be compromised when we allow outside influences that enable our justification in no longer listening to the needs of said partner. Disrespect is seen when we begin the action of defense of justifying, blame, shift blame, or projecting your own negative behavior on the actions of others . The balance has been lost and soon the balance of the physical needs may be lost or maintained else where.

How we engage in secret will become known to the outside world. Respecting our partner leads to:

  • Respecting our partner leads to inner and outward success
  • Respecting our partner leads to unity
  • Respecting our partner leads to the strength development within our cognitive behavior

Respects builds:

  • Trust
  • Fulfillment of Serenity
  • Satisfaction
  • Self-esteem
  • Open Communication
  • Integrity
  • Aline with Moral Values
  • Physical Desires…. within the marriage.

Above all else, where there is respect there is love, for without respect how can love abide?

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CALL TO ACTION:

What is Newtons Law, The motion of an object and the forces that is set against it. It either remains in continues motion or it remains at rest. We either remain to be positive force showing acts of respect or our relationship is at a stand still with disrespect. We remain the same until a force of change is directly applied.

REMAIN RESPECTFUL as you continue your acts of respect within your marriage, that it may express success in secret.